Round 3 Post

How do you handle conflicts?
I am very confrontational, if I have a problem with you then you will know it, and I mean that in the nicest way possible. I don't like to talk about people behind their backs and won't say anything I wouldn't say to their face. If someone does something they shouldn't and I guess wrong me (for lack of a better word) then I say what I have to say and move on and then its the other person's choice to act on it or walk the other way. I have had people in my life walk away after choosing to be deceitful, irresponsible, or careless with my relationship with them, whatever it may be. I was in a very long relationship that ended and after confronting him, felt it didn't do any good because I guess the whole time I never know him at all, and it was based on all lies. Scary huh... I just think it's hard to throw someone out of your life but I've realized that what comes around goes back around, "karmas a bitch." And in the end, people you have conflicts with and if neither one decides to "fix" it then you probably don't want that kind of person in your life anyway and will keep those in your life that are amazing on all levels...next question.

Do you feel that your approach is effective? Why or why not?
I think it is to a certain degree because I'm not the kind of person to let it slide, but I don't want to have any bad blood, and want to have some sort of closure to whatever happened, so I can be done with it..and getting everything I have to say out in the open. I guess it can be effective but people can to intimidated by calling them out but then they just turn out to be cowards and run with their tails between their legs... too bad.

What is the biggest problem you face?
The biggest problem I face...wow that's tough...I guess it has to do with being successful in my career choices that I make for myself. I've had people say, "your not good enough" or you'll never do this or that or you can't. I guess that just fuels my fire, so to speak, to make sure I do what I intend and drives me even more to prove them wrong. And with that I just want those people to know that "Ya I will, watch me make you regret that you said that."

Describe your childhood and home.
Describe a major issue or event that has affected your family.
Wasn't that in the last Round's blog??...Oh well..I guess I had a different childhood than my friends growing up, I didn't have a father figure in my life, my mom was a single parent, raising my brother and I. I can't say it was the most healthy environment at times but I made it out okay, and if anything it has given me my morals and values and I know that at the end of the day, I'm okay.

Describe yourself as a competitor.
Why do you want to be on the RW? Why do you think others will vote for you?
I am very competitive but laid back. If I want something I go after it and do whatever I have to do to get it...(and always classy of course). Sort of check that off my list of things to do... I'm not the biggest thing in the world, but if you cross me and want to compete, then put your game face on... To be on the Real World huh??..I sent an audition tape along time ago and didn't think anything of it, till I was called. I did it just because a friend got me to send one for fun. I guess just like anyone else to be on would be to get out of the hometown, meet new people, and live in an amazing house. I've gotten to the point where if people want to vote for you then great!! And if not, may the best person get on...regardless of those accusing others of cheating or commenting badly on other people's pages...C'mon people we're all so much better than that...And MTV knows who they want to cast, so if they want to cast me and that's in the cards awesome...If anything this website deal will more than likely boost ratings.

Do you drink alcohol? If yes, how do you generally behave when intoxicated?
Yes, I do have a cocktail or two. I've tried to cut back just because going all out and getting wasted isn't the most attractive thing...you feel like hell in the morning, not to mention look absolutely gorgeous....wink! wink! Look like you crawled out of a hole and have seen some friends do things they regret, its just not worth it to me in the long run...but who wouldn't like to watch all those dirty hookups on tv over and over. I just am not the kind of girl to get wasted and sleep with Joe Shmoo at the bar...probably won't be meeting my husband in a bar...but those that have, more power to ya...
Okay, I'm done now..
Best of luck to all,

Jenn

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