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Pretyboy's Blog
Final Thoughts
Well my Real World companions!! This has been a rollercoaster ride of excitement..And I never even left the cpu... So much has transpired on the site in the past 2 months. Friends gained, enemies acquired...So much!! Nonetheless, I am honestly, tired as hell, and want this competition to be over. Anxiety is killing me, and I honestly hate these ??? marks. We aren't faring too nicely. I have to give all the credit for my success not to myself at all. Firstly, it goes to my GOD!!! I know he is orchestrating from Above!! Then, it goes to my family!! I would like to personally thank, first and foremost.. my mother...You have done so much over and above the norm, as always, to ensure that I could have the best possible shot at emerging victorious from this site. She personally contacted several newsapapers in Daytona Beach, FL, and enlightened them to my aspirations, and they decided to do articles! She has supported me throughout this entire competition, and I love her infinity!! Shes my cupcake muffin!!! Hee hee... *ahem* (Manliness Returns) I would like to personally thank my Auntie Joyce!!! She, using her abundant resources, created some, 1000+ fliers for me. Beautifully crafted artwork!!! Getting the word out is key, and with her help, it was much easier, and more efficient!! I love you Auntie!!! I would like to thank My cousin BEN, His girlfriend "Trina..a.k.a "Drama Diva"..lol, and his sister/my cousin Benesha!! They Have all shown support from day One!! And they have my best wishes at heart!! My Auntie JULIA!! You have also been there from day one! Riding the emotional roller coaster also!! Strapped in possibly tighter than us all!!!
My Auntie Loise!! Spreading the word at Bethune Cookman!! TO ALL MY FAMILY!! You all are greatly cherished, and I am thankful to be blessed with you all. TO all my friends..You all have made someone generally, so unemotional towards people..really warm inside. I have received so much support from my associates!! People coming up to me, and wishing me luck incessantly around campus!! The love is wonderful, and I appreciate their efforts!! As they are truly the keys to my success thus far!! AND TO THE GATOR NATION!!! Your support throughout this endeavor has been greatly appreciated!! GO GATORS!! Be it I win or Lose...AND I MUSN't LOSE..I HAVE CHERISHED MEETING EVERYONE FROM THIS SITE..The online people I have met are all truly unique and special!!! BHUN!!! YOLIE!!! GOOGLE!! ISLAND BOY!! FALLON!!! DEREK!! SWIFT!! GEORGIE!! I mean, theres soooo many!! All of you are cool as s---!! And I appreciate you all getting to know me....Only time stands between me and hopefully victory!! I appreciate all my competitors as well...However; unfortunately...Losing is still not an option...I wish you all the best of luck!!! PretyBoy!! Over and out!!
Rd. 5 Blog
If you were cast on the RW, what would your family be surprised to learn about you?
Well, I must admit, I possess a sailor's tongue. My profanity usage is quite staggering. I dont know why, but I tend to find myself using profanity too often. ALot of people are unaware of this fact,especially adults, due to the fact I carry myself so well in showing respect to my elders. However; around my associates, my mouth gets a little more R-rated. I'm working on it though!!! Promise!!! 0:)
I am also quite friendly with the ladies, so I tend to have many female "associates." My mother has never seen any of my "associates" really. I have never brought a female home to her, so she is quite oblivious to how "friendly" I actually am when it comes to females. I mean, Im pretty sure she is somewhat unaware, but she doesn't "know." So, potentially, my promiscuousness could be a little problem.. ;)
Which of your activities or behaviors would you NOT want your family to see on TV?
Basically, primarily, the two activities stated above. I mean, I really wouldnt find it too beneficial for my family to see how much I do use profanity, or how many "females" I "entertain." They really are unaware of my life regarding these two aspects. SO, I might have to tone down my language if I make it onto the show... ;) Just a little though...
I would like to again thank hella fiercely EVERY SINGLE INDIVIDUAL who has EVER cast a vote for me. You are an integral part to my success so far and in the near future!!! Continue to vote please, and leave comments!!! Yee yee!!!
And of course............GO GATORS!!!
BEST & WORST TRAITS
Being versatile, I am endowed with several "good" traits. I consider myself to have a very honest, straight-forward personality. I do not sugar coat the truth for anyone. If asked if something is nice looking, I answer honestly and truthfully, with no bias. So, if you really dont want to know the truth, or cant handle the truth. Dont ask. I am very humorous. I love to have fun and make jokes. I thrive on enjoying life, maxing and relaxing, and living every day as if it could be my last. Life is too short to have drama, and be upset and sad. Smile!! I have the distinct ability to brighten the moods of those around me! I am pretty good at helping people temporarily set aside their problems and worries, and just let loose and relax and have a great time. I am very loyal to those in my circle. I am very trustworthy, and my closest associates know I wouldn't do malicious things behind their backs, or try and be deceitful around them!! I'm great at problem solving. I am extremely logical and my rationale is impeccable. In extremely tense situations I am quite skilled at calming down "heated" people, and explaining a situation to them to diffuse the conflict. I think very analytically when faced with adversity to find the best means of solving the issue!!
Worst Traits
Probably my arrogance, and conceitedness. Now, honestly,its not as bad as you may think. I dont sit in front of the mirror for hours, nor do I talk about myself incessantly. Mostly, it is just the aura I have about myself. I am very confident, in everything I attempt, and the way I carry myself. People generally tend to take it as arrogance and cockiness, when truly, it's really just a high level of confidence.
Sometimes, I dont think about what I am saying, and how it might affect someones feelings. I'm not too caring when it comes to others emotional feelings. I mean, I dont say hateful things, but I may be a little too blunt on occassion and some people just arent used to that.
I tend to always have to get the last word. I hate not getting the last word, or not getting my point across. So, in any debate, I will most likely try for the last word...Can be aggravating to some.. :)
All in all, I consider myself a person with a great personality, and Great Charisma!! Hopefully, pretty soon, the world will see exactly what I am talking about!!
Delving into Perfection/Rd.3/Pt.2
Describe yourself as a competitor...
LMAOOOOooooooooooooooo....Well, basically, I am most definitely one of, if not "the" most competitive person on this planet. All my associates would tell you, I compete at EVERYTHING. Getting a better grade on a test, walking faster back to the car, having my sports trivia facts more accurate than yours, and then...SPORTS..OMG..There is nothing equal to losing. LOSING IS FOR..."LOOOOOSERS." I DO NOT LOSE. It reeks. At UF, there are Dodgeball tournaments, kickball tournaments, and intramural events to name a few. I dominate in each respectively. Even while growing up, I have at least 15 trophies from various events, ranging from sports, to academics, to coming in first place at a global gala(A show designed to pit contestants in a competition to see who can provide the most awareness about a culture in a creative way.) I did Ireland, and played a sheep herders song on the clarinet. Mind you I won!! Victory is so sweet. My associates also know, if your trying to play in a competition and you "just want to have fun." DOnt come on my team. I AM A COMPETITOR. A WARRIOR. EVEN If it's jumprope. WE WILL WIN. *War cry*. I am naturally a leader during these competitions as well, I primarily take charge of everyone and instruct on the most successful means of ending up victorious. Again, mind you, this usually ends in a top place finish!
Why do you want to be on the RW? Why do you think others will vote for you?
Firstly, Honestly, I want to be on RealWorld to have fun. There is nothing like being able to lounge with 6 strangers in a "spacious" living area for 3 months.Pure mayhem!! Just seems like a blast!! Secondly, I really want to showcase a different type of African American Male. MTV really never puts "attractive" African American dudes on the show. *no homo* I mean, Karamo..no comment, Jacques..*sigh* , Tyrie was really cool, however; he was more of a huggable teddy bear(THE WORDS OF THE HOUSEMATES, NOT MY OWN) than a hot guy. Stephen...forget about it. Cyrus...OMG. Alton is quite possibly the only black guy ever on RealWorld deemed, "hot." I think people should be exposed to yet another "attractive" black male.
Thirdly, has to be the experience that should last a lifetime. As seen from previous seasons, you most likely take with you 6 people that you can call your friends forever. Also, the experience of being in this house with 7 strangers is one of a kind. Something you can take with you and cherish. Being, in a house with 6 people of "most likely" different backrounds and views forces you to see somethings from a different thought paradigm. You may have preconceived notions about the persons background, but after living with them, it's a whole different situation. I think it's immensely intriguing to be around people from such different backgrounds on opposite ends of the spectrum.
I think people will vote for me, because I am highly versatile! I mean, I am very athletic, females tend to like a muscular, physically toned/fit males. I have a highly developed artistic side, Musical talents, and so forth. Im really intriguing, if I might say so myself. I really think I always leave a lasting impression on people! And once taking a "sincere" look at my profile, I honestly know that it would be hard for a person to not want to see me in the house. Oh yeah! AND BECAUSE IM A GATOR!! AND IF YOUR NOt a GATOR....."you already know." LMaoooo...
Do you drink alcohol? If yes, how do you generally behave when intoxicated?
I am underage as of right now until, March 1st. However, like many other american chldren in college, underage, I have "sampled some alcohol.""Many samples." I have however, never been inebriated. Just tipsy.(Buzzing) I see people who get drunk and then go spilling their guts. Not fresh, chicks dont dig it, and the stuff smells. Not a good look.
Would like to throw another Thank you out to all those that Vote! Be it Site participants, or Friends/Family!!
THANKS GUYS
and go GATORS!!
Delving into Perfection/Rd.3/Pt.1
Q.How do you handle conflicts?
A. What is rationale Trebek?
Over the course of my life, my approach to conflict stems from one word. Rationale. My course of action always depends on the situation, which should be the case for most people I believe. For ex. (If someone is throwing insults over the computer.)(One of the sheepest moves in the history of the world) Then I tend to laugh and chuckle to myself, and go about my day. However, If someone is throwing these same insults in real life,face to face(What I wish some of these little dweebs on this website would look into doing) I usually pick from two actions. A. I try and rationize with the person, that getting loud, or saying such negative things is quite unecessary, we really shouldnt be arguing right now. Or...
B. This happens the most..I say nothing and walk away, leaving them to debate with themselves. This is the most efficient method, as people generally feel very awkward yelling at someone, that noone else can see, as you have left, and stop yelling/talking.
On those rare occasions, the situation might escalate into a physical altercation. I am very level headed, and keep my cool, so I never act first, however, if someone decides to hit me first, I am them freed by law, to "go to work." I shall feel endagered, and defend myself. Being Im not a small person, I would say that usually results in a regretted decision for the other person. (Kyle Whitaker, 5th grade)
Q.Do you feel that your approach is effective? Why or why not?
A. WHat is yes? Alex...
My method is very effective. Upon leaving the altercation, any verbal tension should dissipate, and unless hit first, there wont be any physical tension either. Also, judging from past instances, my method has worked to perfection.
Q.What is the biggest problem you face?
A.What is Success Alex?
I am a very strong-minded person, and very confident in my abilities and characteristics. My personality would not allow me to not be "successful" by my standards. I cannot be what I deem, an "average" human being. Can't work a 9-5 everyday, desk job..OMG..No..I cant do it.
So, since I am currently not "successful" by my standards yet, It's the biggest problem I face.
Q.Describe your childhood and home
A. What is hell? J/k..WHat is "austere" and "hostile."
Well, my childhood was quite peculiar. Growing up, being the know it all I was, I got in trouble at school alot. And not for things I think deserved to be punished either. My teachers always said I was Very disruptive, and I was insubordinate. OMG..All I did, 99.7653% of the time, was talk one time after they told me to be quiet. I consider disruptive, like picking up a chair and throwing it at "little billy's" cranium. Or yelling foul things at the teacher. I would merely be trying to whisper to a cute girl, or my friend, "DISRUPTING NO-ONE" mind you, and BAM. "Gregory," to the office. Well, from there, things got hellish. My parents didnt deal well with referrals from school. So, upon my somber saunter into the house. I got destroyed. I received hellish beatings, delivered by SATANS MINIONS. Thats not even a joke, but for the sake of making my parents appear like great people...*gag* lmao...They just took "beatings" a little too serious. OMG. And their favorite bible verse..Um...And my most disliked.."Thou shalt not spare the rod." So, basically, I rarely received a reprieve from these agonizing sore flesh experiences. Other than all that.I had a happy childhood. Involved parents, got all I needed, and most of what I desired. I was an only child. ;) We moved hella many times growing up, my mom worked for American Airlines. So, I never stayed at the same school for more than a year until High School. Lots of broken friendships. :( . Which is why, now, I am very unemotional when it comes to people. I dont need someone around me to be happy, nor a group of people. :)
Q.Describe a major issue or event that has affected your family
A. What is the loss of my father Alex...
So, As stated in an earlier blog on parents, I lost my father July 6, 2006 to Cancer. It hasnt even been a full year yet. My father has consistently faded from my memory every day he is not with me. Memories of him become harder and harder to recall. His characteristics become more challenging to remember. It's as if he will eventually exist in my mind as a name and a face. I miss him, with emotions words cannot express. Again, he was my father, and my best friend. My mother, took it harder than I, and for good reason, they were together, some....25+ years, Married, 15+. Since, she has emotionally recovered in my opinion 10 fold. There will of course always be a void, however it does not have to directly affect your everyday living. My father will always be missed and cherished..Love you Dad!!
Round 2 Blog..Parents
Well, its finally time to discuss a dreaded topic, my parents. Unlike a myriad of African American households in America, I had the honor and priveledge to have an active Father in my life. He was my role model, my friend, my protector, my everything. ONe of only two men on this entire earth i considered prettier than me. (The other being Boris Kodjoe) But all that will change soon..Im still developing. Nonetheless, My Dad was the best Dad any son could ask for. Always putting me before himself, and always making sure I had everything I needed, and on those special occasions, everything I "wanted." He was always there for me, attending every monumental function in my life.."games..graduation..baptism at church.etc.." I loved him with all my heart. Sadly..and devasatingly to me, he passed away on July 6th, 2006. Last year. Cancer. I had to do one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I watched life slowly pass from him. I sat there, dumbfoundedly as he was taken away from me. I will never forget that moment, that day, that wrinkle in time, as I stared at his lifeless body. His eyes staring transfixed on the ceiling..emotionless, cold...His body..mannequin like. I hate that whenever I think of him, that is the first image forced into my vision. I TRY REALLY HARD TO see past that moment, but its impossible. EVERY single time, that is the first image I am met with. I LOVE YOU DAD!!!! FOREVER!! ANd i KNOW i will see you again, and I know your watching over me.....
My mother, I am agitated to say, (as you might have noticed from some of my videos, might be "the" most aggravating, annoying, pestlike, entity on this earth. But, I still have nothing but love for her, and realize I am nothing without her. She is a strong independent woman, and she has always taken care of our family to the best of her abilities. While raising me, she refused to allow me to settle in school, and pushed me, along with my father, to be an intelligent, strong minded person. She is probably one of.. if not the only person in this world who can read me like a Dr.Seuss book. I consider myself to have a complex personality, but oddly enough, she understands me extremely well.. I think better than I do myself. SHe knows when Im lying, when Im upset....she knows..Me. She always says it's motherly intuition. I think its bologna. She just has a knack for figuring me out. She is also, one of the most observant people I have ever encountered. I honestly believe she would put some of these CSI people to shame.I really cant put anything past her, and I swear on a scale of 1-10, Im a 8 when it comes to being slick. :) ..But all in all, even through our bumps and conflicts, arguments, and run-ins. I truly cherish both my creators. For without them, I wouldnt be the Beautiful, sexy, sophisticated, Intelligent youth I am today...*Thank you, thank you* :)
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