

Age: 24
Hometown: Philadelphia, PA
Sign: Libra
Last Logged In: about 1 year ago
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How do you handle conflicts?
As I stated before c.Lo is the type of person that other you love me or hate me. I am never really involved in conflicts. I mind my business and if I were to be involved in someone’s gossip with something I might have said, and or something that was considered to me an opinion but said the wrong way, I will confront the person that I so happen to had said something about “Does that make sense?” LOL and for the person I was having a discussion with that went to start some shit I will just basically let that person know that I think very low of them and the next time they speak to me I would appreciate an apology. Walking away and ignoring that person for a little while is best for me as well to blow heat away. I tend to get pissed off and just raise my eye braw and that’s a bad thing. If my eye braw is up just DON’T speak to me till I am ready to be spoken too.
Do you feel that your approach is effective? Why or why not?
Having an approach with people you have problems with is important to me. I believe that everyone is entitled to have something to say about someone, and or someone is always able to speak their mind. Just know that it shouldn’t be in a negative way. Approaching someone to me is a reassurance that the person you are confronting and or if it’s the other way around it’s out of respect, and it’s basically being polite and speaking your mind. But it just has to be in a regular tone of voice, not Ghetto like I tend to me sometimes but Hey we all do that. I like approaching someone. If you seem as though you are not approachable, that’s why they invented e-mail, and or texting. You know? Or am I the only one that would use something like that?
What is the biggest problem you face? The biggest problem I face in this world is being taken serious. I tend to be joke full, at all times, and just live life. When I am speaking and or just being serious, I am looked at like “What the F*ck?
Describe your childhood and home?
My childhood at home was pretty funny I would think. It’s a little lame. I would come home from Catholic School, and get undressed and put my dads t-shirt that was long and walked around in “my t-shirt and underwear with little ninja turtles on it. I still have one too. LOL. I would do my homework, and my Mom would check it because my Dad never spoke or read in English so he couldn’t help us, but he would check our MATH and boy I used to get smacked in the hand if I didn’t know what I was doing after being told twice. Once by my teacher, and again by my father. Dealing with my brothers was also a mess. I was thrown around, and they would take my belongings, and just change the TV channel on me, and or blast music that I didn’t listen too. Things of that nature they would do. Saturday mornings, I would wake up and just blast some Spanish Music and help my Mom clean and sing songs with her and scream them. My brothers would be stuck cleaning the bathroom LOL. I never cleaned the bathroom at all. I despise it. I think it’s Nasty. . What would I do when I live alone? I guess I will hire someone once a week LOL.
Describe a major issue or event that has affected your family:
There has been a tough three years in both my families’ life. In 2002 – 2004 I have had three family relative Die one after another. Started off with my Fathers Mom that I was very close too; I would go to her house all the time after doing homework with my dad and watch Novelas with my grand mom and by the way that’s how I learned my Spanish curse words, as we would sit in front of the TV set and yell PENDEJA SUSCIA to the bad lady in the Mari Mar novela. LOL. Year after that my Aunt moved to Puerto Rico where she ended up with a Brain tumor, and died shortly after that due to the hospitals over there. My other aunt that lived in Puerto Rico with her died as well from something that if she were to be in Philadelphia she would have still been alive. That’s why I said Puerto Rico to me would only be a vacationing spot. I never plan to live there. They do not have the right Doctors or specialist. Having three members of your family die had affected our family in a good way though because it has brought the family more closer together, more family gatherings on both ends, and things of that nature. It’s a shame that things like that have to happen for family to get together. But God works in mysterious ways as they say.
Describe yourself as a competitor:
I would have to say if I were told “You can’t” then I will, and then rub it in your face, saying “Thought I couldn’t do it, Could you?” I love proving people wrong. I don’t like to be underestimated as a person, dancer, and or whatever the case maybe. Just don’t try to belittle me. It’s not a good thing!
Why do you want to be on the RW?
I want to show people the crazy side of me, and the serious side that I have. I am able to live with others I don’t know and make people or roommates love me. I suffer from OCD and people say that they don’t see me on the show because I would just be a mess, and others say the ratings would go up because of the person that I am. I want to be able to express myself normally and show people that what I have gone through growing up I have changed, and showing classmates and family members that I don’t get along with something that they could talk about.
Why do you think others will vote for you?
Once they read my blogs they are going to see a person that isn’t fake, and just loves to have fun, and be serious at times. I am not one of those people that say I want to be on TV I have been on it before it’s not a big deal. I am not on the show to bring like 20 people from the outside you know for publicity, so for those reasons I hope they Vote for me.
Do you drink alcohol? If yes, how do you generally behave when intoxicated?
c.Lo mixed with Alcohol is funny. Often times when I am under the influence of liquor I find that the serial flirt in me rages out, and people may mistake me for being a polygamist. But I can care less you know if I am in the mood to get drunk and Act crazy I am entitled to that. Another symptom I get while intoxicated is being loud, and very joke full, horniness is also a sign of me being drunk. But all in all I know how to handle my liquor I wont get into fights, or throwing objects, because everything I see is funny to me. LOL
Many people grow up in a household with a step parent, and or grow up with one parent playing both roles. I on the other hand was very lucky to have both of my parents teaching me different things. My Mom and Dad have been married legally for 23 years. They are happily married and have three kids. I am the youngest of three. I have two older brothers that are a pain in my ass. Try growing up and having your older brothers trying to tell you what to do because you are younger, or trying to bribe me for candy, or taking my CD’s and other things that I got that they didn’t get.
My relationship with my Mom is …
My Mom is such a lovable person, sweet, innocent, caring, humble to say the least, and just perfect in my eyes. She has worked every day of her life without the support of welfare just to put me and my brother through eight years of Catholic school. She’s always worked to get what she wants and does what she must do to put her kids first. She always told us when you want something you have to work for it. She always came home from work and cooked and just did everything a married woman has to do. My Mom and I are very close. I guess she and I are very sentimental and I was basically considered her favorite son, as my older brothers would say. They were always envious.
My Relationship with my Dad is. . .
My Dad on the other hand is very hard working. He is very strict. I could never get away with murder around him. He’s always involved in going to practice with the Church choir, and he made sure that my brothers and I were involved in Church as Alter Boys; helping the Priest hold the Bible, and the Cross etc. God knows we didn’t want to, riigght? He would punish us and we were not allowed to do anything that involved us having fun. So reading was what we were doing. I would read his Spanish novelas, and he would help me read in Spanish. He taught me that just because I live in America doesn’t mean that I couldn’t learn proper Spanish.
I have a very strong relationship with my parents, they taught me to always enjoy my life, and to enjoy it for me, not anyone else. They said that I have to be very careful because of the violence there is around the area in which we live. I was brought up in the ghetto, and by saying that I am not ashamed. It has made me the person I am today. I plan to further my education and have my parents be more proud of me than what they are already. My parents always supported me in 95% of the things I have done, especially my dancing.
I was placed in Dance classes and later on involved myself in a Latin Dance group where I was the highlight of the group; the one with power and the ability to embrace movement naturally. My brothers always made fun of my dancing till they saw growing up that girls love when guys dance, and not hold up the walls at the club. So when they would ask to learn, I would laugh and tell them, “I am sorry, but dancing is for gay people like me, remember? To this day I tell them the same thing. “It’s a shame you ain’t Gay, so that you can learn how to Dance”. And they always say, “shut up you spoiled brat!” LOL.
Anyway, when I told my parents about my sexuality, I wasn’t thrown out the house, nor was I hit, or harassed. I was just asked to be careful, and to make sure that my feelings don’t get hurt. My father on the other hand didn’t say much, but when he did speak all he could say to me was, “PLEASE make sure you read the Bible, and see what it says”. Other than that, it’s a subject that my father and I never bring up. He has seen me in a different way I guess. I never brought a guy home and I don’t plan to either. Till I know it’s serious. My Mom is more on the happy, and just on the side of me being Happy. That’s all she cares about is to see me happy and not get hurt. My brothers after finding out I was gay, they went out and bought me Condoms and lube, and said to make sure I use that and if I were to get hurt to let them know so they could beat the living gayness out of a guy for hurting me. LOL.
All in all I guess I was blessed to have such a great and loving family.
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hey check out the profile and if you like it please vote for me! I know I am behind and might as well give up but I can't do that just yet!
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