Round 3 questions(how I candle conflicts)

Hey everybody once again its Tiff Love giving you more of me. How do I candle conflicts...well the way I handle conflicts is kind of weird sometimes I have a habit of holding stuff in like I act like its whatever but then it builds up and I explode at the most random times (I got that from my dad lol). I feel like my approach is effective I'm calm but if u really piss me off only god knows what will happen lol. I wont fight only if they hit me first. But overall my point always gets across.

-The biggest problem that I face is overall what I'm going to do with my life. My parents keep on pressuring me is because they feel like by now I should know but honestly I dont and its like they want me to move out and Im just not ready. They shelter me so much then expect me to just go out to the world like that I feel like for my age I dont know a lot of things because they did everything for me I didnt even know how to fill out my financial aid for college. So my biggest problem is jus growing up.

-My childhood was a good one I had both of my parents growing up. I played sports all my life I played soccer, baseball, and basketball all year round till I was 18. I was very active I have trophies all that good stuff. My house is always crowded since my fam is so big I always have aunts, uncles, cousins always at my house its always busy, spanish music blaring out the speakers.

-A lot of events has happened in my family but the most recent one was when my parents were having a lot of problems my father would mentally and sometimes physically abuse my mom mainly mentally. And he also was like with me and my sister he was extremely over the top over protective it got to the point when we started getting scared of him cause we were scared of what he might do. So my mother asked him to leave and he refused to leave even though the apt was under my mom. So one day when my dad went to work we packed up and left and went to my grandmothers house and we were all cramped up in that little apt in my grandmas house while my dad had the whole apt to himself so truly changed my life I didnt think that something like that would happen to me cause my fam was known as perfect, everybody thought everything was good when it wasnt. But we eventually moved back after a year and my mom is working things out now. So that has majorly affected my life.

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